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Kenneth “Kenny” Lee Gonser, 55, of Bartlesville, Oklahoma, passed away on March 17, 2025. He was born on July 15, 1969 in Irving, TX to Arthur and Kay Gonser (Hartman).
He had 6 siblings. He grew up in the Blackwell area, and moved to Arkansas for a short time, but eventually found his way to Dewey, Oklahoma, where he met the love of his life, Tammy Gonser (Lay). They made their marital home in Bartlesville, OK in 2012.
Kenny worked as a General Contractor specializing in concrete work for a little more than 30 years. He then took on a new job with the City of Bartlesville for two years.
Kenny had one son, Dakota Gonser and a stepson, Nathan Barham, by a previous marriage.
He is preceded in death by his parents Arthur and Kay Gonser. He is survived by:
His wife Tammy Gonser.
Son – Dakota Gonser, SO Lyndsey Parks and
granddaughter Ember.
Stepson – Nathan Barham, wife Kelsey, and 2
grandchildren Ryann and Cooper.
Stepdaughter – Brandi Granger, husband
Josh and 4 grandchildren, Dominic, Presley, Shay and Cale.
Stepson –
Matthew Mosley and wife Kimberly. Stepdaughter – Hannah Rollins and 1
granddaughter Anneliese.
Stepdaughter – Sarah Brown.
Stepson – Wyatt
Brown.
Kenny loved the Lord and serving at Tuxedo Church on the Security Team. He was an avid outdoorsman who loved to go bowhunting. He adored his grandchildren, who affectionately called him Grumps or Pop, and you could often find him playing tag with them. Dogs had a special place in Kenny’s heart, and he always saved a bite of his food for any dog, his or not.
A Celebration of Life will be held at Tuxedo Church, 3503 Tuxedo Blvd. Bartlesville, OK. on March 29, 2025, at 1pm
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