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Joy Marie Fair
© Grace Memorial Chapel
11-2010
Submitted by: Jo Aguirre


© Grace Memorial Chapel
Joy Marie Fair, resident of Ponca City, passed away Thursday evening, November 18, 2010 at her home. She was 84 years of age.

Joy was born May 29, 1926 in Lequire, Oklahoma, the daughter of Sam Eaton and Ruby Walls Eaton. She received her early education in the Roosevelt School in Ponca City and the Excelsior School Northeast of Ponca City. She was married to Delbert Fair on August 16, 1942 at the Prairie Chapel Church Northwest of Ponca City. The couple made their first home in Seattle, Washington where Joy was employed at a 5Star Restaurant and Mens Club. The couple also had lived in Tucson, Arizona, Albuquerque, New Mexico, Duncan and Stillwater, Oklahoma before returning to Ponca City 1954.

Joy was a homemaker that especially enjoyed spending time with her family. She also loved to play card games, dominos and other games. She enjoyed flowers, eating out and her church activities. She was a member of St. Pauls United Methodist Church since 1962 and was a member of the Voyagers Sunday School Class, the United Methodist Womens Group and the Stephens Ministry.

She is survived by her husband, Delbert, of the home six children, Delbert W. Fair Jr. and wife, Beverly, Ponca City, Diana K. Foy, Ponca City, Sherry Marie Williams and husband, Gilson, Pawhuska, Debby A. Kelley, Tonkawa, Kevin Z. Fair and wife, Patricia, Ponca City, and Nathan John Fair and wife, Dawn, Wichita, Kansas one sister, Charlene Vap and husband, Jerry, Ponca City and one brother, Edmond Eaton of Lequire, Oklahoma 21 grandchildren, 48 great grandchildren and 3 great great grandchildren and several other extended family and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents her parents, Sam and Ruby her stepfather, Nate Godberson and stepmother, Dorothy Godberson a brother, Charles Ray Godberson soninlaw, Roy Steve Kelley several inlaws that included Wanda Bennett, Willard Fair, Iona Barnett and Ada Honeycutt.

Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday, November 23, 2010 at St. Pauls United Methodist Church with Pastor Lisa CroneSheldon presiding. Interment will follow at the Newkirk Cemetery with a final grave dedication to be given by her son, Kevin. Arrangements are under the direction of Grace Memorial Chapel.




Delbert W. Fair Sr.
© Grace Memorial Chapel
10-2017
Submitted by: Janet Laubhan Flickinger


© Grace Memorial Chapel
Delbert Wayne Fair Sr., resident of Ponca City passed away Wednesday morning, Oct. 4, 2017, at Via Christi Village. He was 94 years of age.

Delbert was born Oct. 26, 1922 in Dilworth, Oklahoma, the son of John and Lola Fair. Delbert grew up around the Beaver Creeks outside of Webb City and Kaw City, Oklahoma. He attended schools in Kaw City, graduating from high school there in 1940. His family were farmers who enjoyed the rewards of hard work, discipline, and family unity in a country setting. His parents, John and Lola Fair were country folk who worked hard to provide for the family. Wherever they lived, John and the family farmed, raised crops of wheat, corn, and oats. When they weren't working the fields, they raised chickens, turkey, geese, and tended dairy cattle and hogs. In addition to farming, John maintained a team of horses where he hauled drilling pipe to and from the oil fields. Lola was a great cook, her fine meals enjoyed by many an oil field worker at the noon meal. Although life was hard, they enjoyed a great family-centered lifestyle working, hunting, fishing, visiting kinfolk, playing games and musical instruments.

Following his high school graduation, Delbert met Joy Marie Eaton in Sept 1941 at a Cherokee Strip Celebration in Ponca City and knew right away that he wanted that beautiful young lady. A month later, he went to work for Lockheed-Vega Aircraft Co. in Burbank, California, returning to Ponca City in May 1942 because he couldn't stand being away from Joy Marie. Hiring on with Boeing Aircraft Co. in Seattle, Washington in Aug 1942, he asked for Joy's hand in marriage, soon thereafter marrying her on Aug 16, 1942 at the Prairie Chapel Church northwest of Ponca City. Following their marriage, they moved out to Seattle where they had the time of their young lives just enjoying each other. Delbert began his military career in 1943 as a Cadet in basic training, then in January 1944 he attended Texas Tech University where he underwent Pilot Training. He then went to Yucca Flats for Gunnery School, then to Albuquerque, NM for Bombardier School till January 1945. From July to September 1945, Delbert went through B-29 Crew Training to prepare for overseas duty during WWII.

When WWII came to an end in Sept 1945, Delbert joined the Air Force Reserves, then began college at Oklahoma A&M (Oklahoma State University) in January 1946. He studied Electrical Engineering there for 3.5 years, working and raising a family while taking 21 credit hours per semester. After graduating in 1949 with a degree in Electrical Engineering, Delbert went to work in the oil fields at Duncan, Ok. While continuing in the Air Force Reserves, he earned his triple flight rating (Pilot, Navigator, Bombardier) at Wichita Falls, TX. Delbert was called to serve his country in the Korean Conflict in June 1951, flying 55 missions over North Korea as a Navigator/Bombardier in the 13th Bomb Squadron, the ''Grim Reepers.'' He was a highly respected and requested Navigator for his uncanny ability to get his flight crew over target even in zero visibility weather conditions and safely back to home base. He remained in the Active Air Force Reserves following his assignment to Korea. When the family moved from Arizona to Ponca City, Oklahoma in 1954, Delbert continued his service while assigned to the Ponca City Air Force Reserve Unit and was the last Squadron Commander of that unit. He retired at the rank of Lt. Colonel in 1975. Delbert went to work for Conoco in 1954 and was assigned to the Exploration Research Division. He retired as Group Leader of Exploration Research in Ponca City in 1985. While working with Conoco, he was awarded 29 patents for designing a variety of oil exploration research/vibroseis equipment.

Delbert is survived by his son Delbert W. Fair, Jr. and wife Beverly, Ponca City, Sherry Marie Williams and husband Gilson, Pawhuska, Debbie A. Kelley, Ponca City, Kevin Z. Fair and wife Patricia, Oklahoma City, and Nathan J. Fair, Salina, Kansas; and his sisters-in-law, Charlene Vap and husband Jerry, Ponca City, Mary Freeman, Stillwater, and Kathie Armstrong, Ponca City; 20 grandchildren, 43 great-grandchildren and 7 great-great-grandchildren; and several other extended family and friends.

He was preceded in death by his wife Joy Marie, one daughter Diana Kay Foy, one son-in-law Roy Steve Kelley, his parents, one brother, three sisters, three brothers-in-law and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.

Funeral services will be held at 10am Monday, Oct 9 at St. Paul's United Methodist Church with Pastor Cindy Riedel presiding and Pastor Robert Montgomery assisting. Interment will follow at the Newkirk Cemetery with a final Grave Dedication to be given by his son, Kevin. Arrangements are under the direction of Grace Memorial Chapel.

Casket bearers will be his grandsons Roy Steve Kelley Jr., Delbert William Fair, Matthew Fair, Charles Kilpatrick, Ted Foy, and James Ryan Ledbetter. Honorary casket bearers will be Taylor Fair, Jeffery Koch, Cameron Fair, and Tyler Knight.

Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of North Central Oklahoma, 455 Fairview Ave., Ponca City, Ok 74601 or to St. Paul's United Methodist Church, 1904 N. Pecan, Ponca City, Ok 74604.


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